Thursday, April 12, 2012

LOVE BITES

                                                                                                



                                           Sometime you might have bite it, and rest of the times it bites you.
The first one doesn't concerns me and neither will i extol it but if the second then it does but yes definitely i would love to (pry) on the first on your account.

LOVE- the heart of everyone's life(isn't it?).I wont say that to understand the fervorness,you have to fall in love but definitely have to have a heart.
people often say he who is in love is a dolt, but for them it may be a paradise.
  Love should be preen and refined. The couples should have deep respect for each other , it is a self-contained feeling which also completes you.
It is no less than a tonic that rejuvenates you and the world then lies in his/her arms and you are keen to be with him/her, and live each moment of your life.
The zeal to wait for that single vigorous, pious kiss with your beloved is in itself a voluptuous feeling and finally the day comes when you share a love bite.
Love is now at its highest verve and the only important thing in life is he/she. My morning starts with his voice and nights ends in his arms. By the time one now gets whimsical and see rainbows in sunny weather and his face in paneer balls.....................
 
 Is love so prominent and everlasting??( yes for some and no for most). There are no discounts on love. For some now realize that her/his feelings were phoney, some turn out to be cheaters, break-ups, tears, pains,suffering and what not! ( reasons may include a new chick, turning out to be a gay, a richie-rich or he din't give me enough gifts bla bla..).
However you try to repel the truth but again you landed on the same surface - LOVE BITES though in an opposite sense this time(and you may not be sharing this).
Now love has started biting you and the feeling of togetherness turned blue.(hona hi tha)!
Sleepless nights is what probably one ends on(i'm excluding the ones who got themselves a new bf/gf), those longs chats, midnight romance,lavish dates, celebrations and all those  special moments of love under the tree, nevertheless will trap you in its web. Some will still excel in life (bravo!),  one still trying to cope up with life, many are lucky to patch up but few will shatter. Its for them- Love is not the ultimate thing in life
(for all those who have and have not been in love)....

We are hearing love stories since eons(not the famous heer- ranjha and romeo-juliet ones but get to the practical ones which you must have heard your neighbours gossiping around)
and the lovers flouting the religion inclined society which then most of the times inflicts their lives and in some cases leads to lethal(some do this on their own wish as well).
I know it is difficult to bear the pain of separation from your loved ones but what i want to heed here is------
                      DO NOT inculcate anything form this often repeated, incessant,inane custom. let it not be a paradigm for you.Let love be a pure expression of feeling at heart. Fight if you can else the memories spent with your beloved are enough to live life.
Make yourself true to your love not by harming yourself but just living for his/her memories, to cherish that everlasting real love, just to keep the single promise that you made to him/her that i will live for you always...                        
Your love story need no milestones, neither it has to be a remarkable or a famous one, just a real love story will do.


Saturday, April 7, 2012

THE SPICE OF SINCERITY AND INTEGRITY IN REAL SERVICE

 


Douglas Adams probably said the right thing- "fortunately or unfortunately". Real service often reminds me of the Indian political scenario today.
It always leaves me in an addled state wether actually we get the re-al service??  well we all know the answer is a big-NO!
Our so called political leaders have become so avid that they have duly lost their sincerity towards their country and integrity that governs an
individual to do right things. 
The other day there was an event in my college named -- Aasha--. In the same there was a poster making
competition and the topic was India -My better future. I was just hanging around in the premises while i happened to visit the event. It didn't
surprised me at all to see all the posters either criticized our politics or longing for some hope that someday somewhere a miracle will take
 place.
All i wanted to do was take all of them and paste them in parliament house... atleast every morning it will remind them of their true inner self.
It may sound blatant to some people and surely they will dessent on me but we all do agree to it at a certain point.

Anyway i'm not here to be politically biased and neither this post is supposed to be, my only motto is to elicit the two most important words that
can make our life embellish and they are- sincerity and integrity. Though we may debate on it and one who want to taste success (afcourse all of us do)
should be reluctant of these things(do we really need to?) and however you gibe at them, they still will continue in the same race at the same pace:):).
Though the fact that there are numerous examples to prove that moral values have always been suppressed under the pressure or desire to
make peace with ones starving stomach,some obviously just to lucre but some do really serve selflessly.
The most relevant example is Kiran bedi and i really want to salute her for the incredible service she always has and is giving us.
Though people tried to buy her but couldn't "afford" to.
we should always do what we our conscience allows to and the moment we realize something wrong is driving us- Hold on!
Quickly rewind and fast forward, overhaul and then Move on. Being lull and bearing the wrong is never a solution.
From the initial level to the the utmost sky all we need is to  be sincere, honest and truthful besides carrying own moral ethics for that adorns
the culture of india too. I know honesty and truth sucks and even i'm not some Harish Chandra follower but atleast we can try to(not being harishchandra but being honest)!
Today independence governs us all because of some men(and women too) who believed in true sense of morality and though it took years but aren't we free.
I know the world is too racy to be in the slow and steady race but the values related are impalpable and i can only plea not to keep them
in some corners and let slither but make it most prior in our life. Even if one percent tend to do it will definitely be uprising.
Lets reconcile 'coz this is a critical issue and one can never set peace at it as it is a bottomless pit.
 Only thing is remember being sincere in whatever you do and let our integrity be a vestige to woo and reach to the zenith for none will be able to cheat it,snatch it,buy it,measure it but surely can learn from it.